A graceful exit is when you realize that what’s possible may not be beneficial, and you bow out—without regret or remorse
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One reason (or two) why so many promising people fail to reach their potential is because we tend to underemphasize the advantages of disadvantages (or the disadvantages of advantages).
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God always chooses the left out, the looked over, and the left out.
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It seems that Jesus has an eye for underutilized assets. It is clear from the Gospels that he was always finding value in overlooked people, places and things.
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One writer opined that “self pity is easily the most destructive of the non-pharmaceutical narcotics; it is addictive, gives momentary pleasure, and separates the victim from reality. Along with resentment, it perhaps one of the most toxic emotions.”
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…we all have a tendency to think that success means going back to way things were (in whatever period of the past we had the most fun, experienced the most success, or had best adjusted to). But Jesus offers a radical (and necessary) corrective to that idea. He warns us not to cling to the past.
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An unreasonable demand is a demand that the demandee doesn’t have the capacity to execute. Unreasonable demands set you up for disappointment, and introduce tension to otherwise healthy relationships.
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But the best agenda to be on in life and in your prayer life is God’s agenda! This is why every Christian should end every prayer with the expression “not my will, but thine be done.”
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There is a relationship between prayer and victory. When you pray, you set you and your family up to WIN.
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As the 25 year old son of an elite Roman family, Caesar was an extremely valuable prize. He was captured, and was informed that the ransom price was 20 talents—which at the time was a very considerable sum. According to Plutarch, Caesar laughed and told them that their asking price was too low and suggested that they raise it to 50 talents! They did, and sold him back.
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In his poem If, Rudyard Kipling suggests that one of the great challenges of life is dual ability to “walk with crowds and keep your virtue” and “walk with Kings and not lose the common touch.” Neither are easy, and the latter may be harder. But keeping the common touch will get your further faster.
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After being struck by what is arguably the most poisonous arrow in the human quiver, Jesus stayed focused and stayed grateful.
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These days, when someone says “you’re so extra,” it usually isn’t a compliment. Typically , it’s an insult. It is most often said in response to some display of emotion or investment of energy that is deemed inappropriate or unnecessary. In fact, most of us learn quite early not to give ourselves freely to anything or anyone to avoid embarrassment or rejection. We tip toe through life, studiously avoiding commitment. As Jim Carey put it, we “disguise our fear as practicality”.
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I read once that one of the greatest regrets that so many people have at the end of their lives is that instead of living the life they wanted, they lived the life that someone else wanted for them. I am convinced this happens because we give the people we trust and often admire too much influence over our decisions. You gotta know that you know, and be prepared to disappoint people who disagree with you. You might be wrong. But at least the decision will be yours, and not someone else’s.
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Athletes, particularly veterans, only have a window of opportunity, and they must manage it wisely. It’s why Tom Brady left the Patriots after 20 years to start over. He realized that his window of opportunity was closing.
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.Anyone that distracts you from the main objective of building something of lasting value must be ignored, whether they are copycats, critics, or cheerleaders.
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If we do not learn patience, If we accelerate through scripture in search of absolutes, in pursuit of popular shortcuts, we risk much more than the food we love.
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Whenever you make perfection the standard for making a contribution, no contributions will ever be made. We all would do well to remember that there are no perfect servants. Or prophets. Or preachers. Or people. This is the fatal flaw in cancel culture. If you cancel everyone who has ever or will ever make a mistake, no one will be left.
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And as a Christian, I must always believe in the possibility that through the power of the Gospel, human beings can change. This text suggests that even after a lifetime of evil, a few moments in the presence of Jesus can melt the hardest heart, and forever alter one’s destiny.
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Use this moment as an opportunity to take a good, hard, long look at your life and see what needs to be changed. Don’t go back to normal. Michael Hyatt says we should rejoice over what we have been able to accomplish, recommit to what’s important, revise what we desire but may be currently challenging to achieve, replace what isn’t working, and remove what doesn’t contribute to our progress. Don’t go back to normal. Rejoice, recommit, revise, replace, and remove. Then repeat.
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