Step Out Of The Shadows

Light is always used in the scriptures as a metaphor for God. 1 John 1:5 informs us that “God is light, and in him is no darkness at all.” So it seems that one source of inferiority is who we allow to be our light! Whenever we allow others to stand between us and God, they block us from the true source of identity, satisfaction and meaning, and cause us to linger in the shadows.

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Substitutes

I remember that whenever we had a substitute teacher in school, we traumatized the poor creature. The sub didn’t know us, so my elementary school assassins and I used conceivable strategy to avoid learning. We tried stuff with the substitute that we would never try with the real teacher. To us, the equation was simple: sub=no work

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Shattered

In fact, there are many people who believe that the pandemic was one of the best things that could have happened to the Body of Christ, because it forced us to rediscover what the church really is and what the church is really about.

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Stop Clinging To The Past

…we all have a tendency to think that success means going back to way things were (in whatever period of the past we had the most fun, experienced the most success, or had best adjusted to). But Jesus offers a radical (and necessary) corrective to that idea. He warns us not to cling to the past.

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Why (Aren't) You So Extra?

These days, when someone says “you’re so extra,” it usually isn’t a compliment. Typically , it’s an insult. It is most often said in response to some display of emotion or investment of energy that is deemed inappropriate or unnecessary. In fact, most of us learn quite early not to give ourselves freely to anything or anyone to avoid embarrassment or rejection. We tip toe through life, studiously avoiding commitment. As Jim Carey put it, we “disguise our fear as practicality”.

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Make It A Big Deal

I read once that one of the greatest regrets that so many people have at the end of their lives is that instead of living the life they wanted, they lived the life that someone else wanted for them. I am convinced this happens because we give the people we trust and often admire too much influence over our decisions. You gotta know that you know, and be prepared to disappoint people who disagree with you. You might be wrong. But at least the decision will be yours, and not someone else’s.

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